Cortigiana Onesta, the self proclaimed ‘Honest Courtesan’ believes there are fundamental differences between an escort and a so-called ‘courtesan’, notably the ‘depth’ of service offered. While Onesta makes some valid points about customer service experience, we firmly believe the only real fundamental difference between an escort and a courtesan, which the dictionary defines as ‘a prostitute with wealthy clients’, is the customer himself. Regular customers tend to have more meaningful relationships with the escort.
According to Onesta, an escort will “often greet a client with a kiss, and some minor chit chat will ensue. Normally, it won’t be much and they will get right down to business. This chat may even occur while the client undresses, sets down his donation, and moves to the bed. There will be some superficial connection, but what it comes down to is the client being happy with what he sees.” i.e. an escort will focus on physical outcomes rather than emotional connections. Courtesans, on the other hand, Onesta says “tend to focus on the mind first and body later”, subscribing to the belief that “an emotional release first makes the physical release better.”
Where this theory falls down is the needs of the customer, not the predisposition of the escort and/or courtesan. In reality it doesn’t matter what we feel or want or aspire to because, at the end of the day, if a customer is looking for a quickie and wants absolute “no strings attached” sex where emotions do not come into play at all, then he’s going to show up, fuck and leave.
This will happen irrespective of whether the customer is a regular or a stranger, but regular customersdo tend to demand more than a quickie, especially if they develop a relationship/rapport with one particular girl. In A Men’s Guide (to escorts) by Marc Perkel, the writer and former US politician, says “if you find an escort you like and you see her many times, the sex usually gets better. You get to know each other better and know what each other likes. Like any relationship, the more time you spend together the better you get at it.”
In our experience, customer relationships with escorts can last for years and, as Perkel points out a regular relationship can be fulfilling on many levels other than just sex.”Becoming a regular is like having a surrogate relationship,” Perkel says. “It’s not the same as being married and living happily ever after. However, it’s a lot better than being alone. There are a lot of people in the world that traditional marriage isn’t something that’s going to work. The idea that “there’s someone for everyone” is a myth. If you find that someone and you have a golden anniversary, that’s just great. But for most of us, that just isn’t going to happen. And you can make yourself miserable waiting for it.”
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